Someone in your life at some point and time, and for whatever reason—I don’t know who—maybe you were lying on the couch all day a little too often, or just didn’t feel like it was necessary to do your work around the house, or…? for whatever reason you had in making the choices that you did, whatever it was, and then they, this person, decidedly called you, “lazy.”
Well? Let’s talk about it for a moment or two. Perhaps if you’re anything like me, the word, “lazy” holds a negative connotation. Whenever I hear this word I can feel a real sense of discomfort coming from it. Perhaps more than understood, a state of paralysis has overwhelmed my sense of beingness—Meaning? it feels rather, “yuck” for lack of a better term, but it is as if my own existence mattered not and any pursuit toward the betterment for my own life is a waste of my energy and effort. Because? I have recognized the prime significance of BEING versus DOING. Well? You want to know what I have to say to that now? If I am DOING anything? I am advocating that you become the slum! Hold your mold! Enjoy your ploy! Free your be! Yep: just celebrate your existence. You have already made it. The world depends on your magnificence being realized by you.
In this day and age? When supercomputers are overriding employment needs on massive scale? This type of instance? Of being comatose. A state of dread, fear, paralysis, depression, laziness—whatever it is—I want to believe, happens more than most would like to admit it does in today’s society. You know how I know that? A. Because I am you, first off! Get that—right there, but that’s kind of like cheating the answer for some of you, so here’s my B. Because you, you who daunt and dangle around the façade of belonging to society in being termed “lazy”—YOU were taught the same program—and in whatever perspective from which it was brought unto your attention—that I was. And so THAT is how I know: the muh** is broken! Fear and worry not friend! Easier said than done—I get it, but for sure it has left a major grip of people out on the edge of questioning whether or not a programmed definition for existence ever brought along with it so much obscure and useless wastes of time. So much distress—inefficiency—hopelessness and angst. We are caught pumping out babies because we know exactly what that’s about, but not giving the time and solutions toward living a fulfilling existence. Taught that materials and external experiences are what life is all about in spite of the massive and obvious discrepancy in socioeconomic status where Trust-Fund kids are brought up and enclosed inside a bubble of experiencing existence in a way that never translates into worthy and sensible merit of character. Check it. Trust me. This button here? Proves it: they do not care.
It doesn’t make them inept at existence, but more or less a missings of human attributes: mainly emotions. Emotions to them? Are wastes of time. To anyone else? The heart of the internal experience. While they are off hunting for new treasures and experiences in the external world? People like me are testing their fortitude and growth by exploring the internal world. To question the purpose and meaning of life is yet again —a normalcy. But to do it with clarity? To do it within oneself? That absolutely takes something! The interesting aspect about this quandary—if I may call it such—is that being completely separated from life is seen by internal-seekers as a must! It is the secret, tenfold! In performing the clarity-formed individuation practice, an individual can gain the full sense of understanding of themselves and their relationship with God/Source/Creator.
For the sake of time, let’s get back to it, this word, “lazy” has been perpetuated throughout a lifetime experience where one has suddenly begun to notice that a separate, but parallel thought-line has arisen: that no matter how hard an individual tries in their state of circumstances, or no matter what is done about it, new people appear and decide to fling this particular term out again. There was never a person to reach out and recognize the actual struggles and obstacles that were being overcome. No one ever bothered to ask how the world was occurring to you. And because of this, a person may have begun to wonder whether or not they had tried everything, or whether they could have accomplished more, or even whether or not they were worthy. Self-doubt might have crept in. What was it that was overlooked? How was it that they were not aware yet of the envisioned, pre-destined accomplishments that were on their way? And? Here’s the jagged pill to swallow: at no fault of their own: it was your doing all along. It was all your fault. Responsibility? Claim it now. This is your big moment. This is where you begin your life. After that? Forgive. Start by forgiving yourself.
I am not going to start introducing myself. That would be a waste of our time altogether. I want to start by congratulating you for having made it here. Wow. Thank you. Furthermore? Congratulations for discovering a short-cut through life. Way to go! Because of your once molded term of, “laziness” today through your persistence during this read, you have somehow climbed up the ladder of life and managed to pop into the discovery of not only how amazing you are: facts, but what a projection is. A projection is basically where another person tells you exactly what you are (or aren’t) but only because somewhere deep inside of themselves they know that they are exactly that which they have attempted to label you as being.
Either way, lazy or not? Separating yourself from societal programming during your individuation process is key to getting to know what is really important in your life. My opinion is that this idea of “laziness” is certainly not a bad place to be when determining your own personal valuation and pursuits in life within a judgement-free zone. TAKE A LOOK: There’s nothing bad or good; right or wrong about being here. So many times do the interpretations and judgments of others get into the way of our own decisions in life. PLEASE! you do have to promise me one thing! Since I’m laying out for you all of this valuable information, promise me you will keep putting yourself out there?—in whatever capacity. It might be seen by some as a waste of time or effort, but it’s not because you said so and YOU are enough! The limits are endless, but that of which you are and have become is more than plenty. Can you accept that for me? Good.
So what kind of information could I go ahead and proudly leave behind to my progeny? That I could one day look back and say, “Yeah. I gave my all to that cause.” and so will I begin by sharing that all of life’s a dream? or that the bad guys usually get away more cleanly than the good guys? In my opinion? These are definitely pretty rough places to start from. The good news? is that I have no idea who you are or what you’ve been through and/or what you are currently going through. What I do know, is that you’ve made it here to this moment. Regardless of what it appears to be? Check in with your feelings. This life is all just a circumstance and it is temporary. The more you can appreciate life for all that it is and isn’t? The better your life will become.
I conditioned (reprogrammed) myself to believe that anything was possible: and I still have to do clean ups (like changing the oil in your auto) every now and again, but the issue is this: distractions in the external world everywhere. On top of that? Distractions are multiplying and pulling us all apart. Separations are mounting from the inside-out, or, outside-in, since unfortunately that is how the majority views their existence. “Divide and conquer.” -Sun Tzu once told us in his famous book, The Art Of War. It’s so easy these days to take a side and pretend like you’re playing a part in something momentously important. Fortunately for us? We’re—okay—I, because I can’t speak for you, am lazyI Fortunately it brightens our day and brings honor and self-respect. Hey! Then are you happy? Deep. Deep. Deep. Dig in here and ask yourself: is not this existence enough?
Keep yourself aware of the game-plan: to take control over you. Separate us more and more from who we have understood and understand ourselves to be. With each and every day something new appears and will add on to this ever-long quest called, individuation. You can be lazy. You can be anything you want to also—but not everything. I love you!